02 February, 2012

2nd of Feb ... what's past is past

So, continuing the trend of working out what I'm thankful for. Today I saw my ex. She didn't see me as she was going in a different direction.

But today I'm grateful that she is my ex. We had our good times but at the end of the day she wasn't right for me. And I'm grateful that we're no longer together.

01 February, 2012

Ow ow ow!

They say that your life flashes before your eyes in life threatening situations. So far in my life I've been in 3 situations that, looking back, could have been it. In none of those situations have I had a look back at my life.

The first was when I flipped a car. My clearest memory of that is thinking that things were going so well in my slide around the corner at 90km/h (not deliberately) that I should try slowing down by braking. It gets a bit hazy after that ... but the end result was the car ended up upside down. I walked (well, crawled out the back window) unscathed from that, without even a scratch.

The second time was white water rafting. After being dumped out of the raft at the rapids, I tried to surface and my head hit the bottom of the raft. I had a bit of a think about the situation (very quickly obviously) and dived back down to hopefully catch a current and resurface away from the raft. If I'd had the wind knocked out of me or I'd panicked I may have drowned. Drowning white water rafting in Wales would have been quite embarassing, so I'm quite glad that didn't happen!

The last time was this morning. I've started riding a bike to work, for fitness, to save money and because it's quicker than any other way to get to work. So today, like most days I rode up Venner Rd to the lights at Ipswich road on the footpath and waited for the lights to change. When the green man came on I hopped back on the bike and continued over Ipswich Rd down on to Waterton. The bike lane starts a little way down the road so there's a brief bit where I normally stay on the footpath until I can safely get on the road. Today a lot of cars turned left so I went straight on the road.

Down that hill I reckon I can get above 60, so I tried to get up a bit of speed, as that way the cars that catch up to me aren't going that fast comparatively. Unfortunately there was quite a bit of traffic on the road today, and the guy coming out of Hungry Jacks was having trouble getting out. So when I was about 10 metres from the driveway he pulled out. With no where to go I smacked into his right side of the bonnet at about 30 km/h (according to Strava).

As I tumbled through the air ( I remember being upside down ) I can remember hoping that I would land safely and roll. Or at least not break any bones. I landed, but I don't remember how but it must have been on my hip as I have a very impressive scrape there. I got up and the adrenaline / shock kicked in so I basically ran off the road and paced for a bit until I'd calmed down. My work shoes had come flying out of the bag and someone picked them up for me. I don't remember where the bike ended up, but the other side of the road as someone took it off the road for me.

I was quite obviously in shock as it's a bit of a blur for the next few minutes. The guy who'd pulled out in front of me was as well, as was the lady who was behind me, as she pulled her car up and rang 000 for us. As I do, I made light of the whole thing and tried to crack a few jokes. The first people who turned up were the the fire department. No real need for them to be there, but I appreciated it. Then the ambulance showed up, gave me a once over and then the driver.

It was good to have the 10 minutes rest and recover, and then I walked home and put the bike away. Gave Mick a bit of a fright with me saying I'd been hit by a car, but I don't think I was thinking quite right.

Got to work around 1030 or so, which was not too bad. The best thing is that I rang work at 8am (when I got hit) to let them know what had happened, but the message didn't get passed on. At about 930am our producer asked if anyone had my number to check on me, in case I'd been hit by a car ......

Photos of the damage: https://plus.google.com/photos/111624362804658067487/albums/5704120785994345969
The (very short) ride: http://app.strava.com/rides/3775887

In all seriousness, I am very very happy that I walked away from this accident. I can't help wondering how badly injured I would have been if this had happened further down the hill. Or I'd hit somewhere else on the car and not been able to go flying over the bonnet.

It really makes you appreciate the good things in life. Ironically, I was going to start blogging daily about what made today good. Today was the fact I had my first serious accident on my bike and walked away. Stay safe people, and enjoy each day as it comes.

30 January, 2012

Danger, High Voltage!

I've hade this video stuck in my head for at least a week. So I then went to youtube to listen to it, and now I've seen the video. It's ... interesting. I can't decide whether I like it or not. I really like the music ... I might just have to watch it again.


20 December, 2011

Cat siting

A friend of mine is going to Europe for 6 weeks and needed someone to look after their cat. Being of no fixed abode myself I jumped at the chance.

So far the cat has ignored me. At least he's not running away!

The other good feature is the xbox 360. I've been keen to get into more casual games than my usual fare so this is a good chance to try it out. As a bonus it was 1 dollar for 1 months membership on xbox live gold so I'm doing well at keeping costs down.

Now I just need sometime to fire up Battlefield 3 ... and get the rest of my electronic gear over so I can enjoy it in full HD

13 December, 2011

Summer holiday

A tradition that many families had growing up is the summer holiday. It's not one I've ever had and I don't think I'd have missed it.

It is, however, a new family tradition now that both my sisters have kids and most of the family is scattered arouns Australia. So we're off for a week of surf and sun (also not our traditional family activites) up on the sunshine coast.

And where I try to spend most of my time watching the cricket with a beer; Or now that's finished it is playing iPad games and eating pffernuisse. Now that's my kind of tradition.

Although hanging out with the nephews is kind of cool as well :)

21 September, 2011

Back again

And it's like I've never left. But why?

Put simply, I didn't use my personal site anymore and didn't want to pay for it anymore. Plus I'm using so many google products that it makes sense to continue to put all my eggs in one basket.

Of course, now I have to set up the template and make sure everything still works.... that could be fun.

19 December, 2009

Last post

This is the last post planned for this blog. I've laid out money for my own domain and web hosting, so I can now be found at http://www.benfreke.com.

It's also incorporates my work blog (which is kind of funny, as I'm not currently working) and other useful things. Now that it's not going to change much, it's time to move all the links, etc over. Maybe Monday :)

One thing I haven't tested is the RSS feed. I'm sure it works though, it's a default setting of Joomla! sites. I'll add that to the list on Monday.